चलते चलते (५१)

माना कि इस ज़मीं को न गुलज़ार कर सके, कुछ ख़ार कम तो कर गए गुज़रे जिधर से हम!! साहिर लुधियानवी

चलते चलते (५०)

चिराग़ कैसे अपनी मजबूरियाँ बयां करे, हवा ज़रूरी भी और डर भी उसी से है ।

Learning to say NO

Just finished reading the book "Learning to say NO". The book was quite well and very remarkable and everyone who has a habit of saying 'Yes' to everything should read it once. Important points of the book are written below:-

1. You find yourself constantly saying yes because of that deep-rooted sense of having to be polite, to reciprocate favors and to get along with others.
2. You say yes because you want to be liked by all.
3. You are worrying about what others will think of you.
4. Flattery doesn't always come from the heart.
5. You say yes because you do not want to challenge authority.
6. You say yes because you feel you have to say yes.
7. Sometimes in an effort to always do what is right, people can get caught up in the loop of always saying 'Yes'.
8. You are not assertive enough to muster up the courage to say No.
9. Learning how to say No will make you feel more confident and in control of your life.
10. Sometimes, the accumulation of small issues creates a big one. 

चलते चलते (४९ )

बात करो तो लफ़्ज़ों से भी ख़ुशबू आती है,
लगता है उस लड़की को भी उर्दू आती है.
~आलोक श्रीवास्तव

चलते चलते (४८ )

ख़्वाईशो के बोझ में बशर,तू क्या क्या कर रहा है, इतना तो जीना भी नहीं,जितना तू मर रहा है...!

चलते चलते (४७ )

हासिल-ए -जिंदगी हसरतों के सिवा कुछ भी नहीं ये मिला नहीं, वो किया नहीं,ये हुआ नहीं, वो रहा नहीं..... #JaunEliya